I agree I need to do them for myself. Over the last year I have become increasingly more upset and depressed with who I had become as a man, husband, son, brother, inlaw, employee etc.. I surely need some changes that benefit me personally, I don't know where all my shortcomings are but i can start with things addressed (correctly I think) in my own relationship. Just got home from work and she is on the phone with her brother, I plan on sitting on the couch as well and watching tv, she has not aknowledged me at all but hat has become pretty common.
