Possible EA - sitting on the edge

[Puppy Dog Tails]

There is a lot more but I can't remember everything.

I know it's hard to remember, but can you give us some more detail? Especially about how the convo went on this part:

Once D was in bed the anger started coming. I stayed calm and validated and listened. That night we got nowhere so I left the room and went to bed.

What is it, specifically, that was said?

Puppy