Originally Posted By: Kalni
Did the same thing today. Told him on the phone after making some bitchy comments, when he asked "what has he done?" that he has "done so much that I blame him for nearly everything"... frown

He said he didnt have to take this and I said "fine lets stop this call now". And we did.

Sometimes I just dont care. I want to be mad at him and dont give a sh!t...
K


Darn it Kalni,
If you want to mad at him you have every right to be. Someone does not get to do all that he did and then expect you to be all perky and nice. He had to deal with the aftermath of his nonsense and if his wife happens to have an off day. He should suck it up.
He is due a little brow beating now and then....

I know others would say- try to behave honorably and don't let emotions get the best of you. But you know what- anger is going to be there for a while and venting anger at him is ok in my mind.

For so long you had to take cr@p and and sit on it. It's no wonder your head didn't explode.

He now has got to learn the water on a duck's back analogy. And realize what triggers are and how the betrayed spouse has to live with the trauma of it all.

You know what he should be thinking every minute of every second of every day.....
He is D@MN lucky you allowed him back.

And if he doesn't get that. If he doesn't realize how lucky he is...then he is a moron.

Sorry- you hubby get's me going....I feel my heart beat go up when I read your posts some times.


Totally off topic- how is your hubby's english? I know Retroville is not an option but I found this online weekend couple's class. I read about it somewhere in an article on this site and googled it. I can look for it again this week (super busy now). I keep meaning to start a thread about it. Thought maybe it would be of interest....


M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)