Thanks Whitney! Glad you are still on here! I mean, I wish none of us were here but, you know what I mean!! Lol!
I think.. had I not allowed the sex to happen, I would have not felt so empty and sad, but I know I would have been somewhat that way, regardless!
I have not had any contact with him at all for 4 days now! I know that doesn't sound like long, but since the OW has been gone that is a long time for us! We haven't even texted or emailed about the kids! I can't even stalk him on facebook anymore cause my D changed her password so I can't see his page anymore thru her! I know that sounds nuts, but he is obsessed with facebook and I could keep tabs on him that way. Each day that I know nothing about him, it gets easier and easier. So, good for you that you have been doing it for a month, you are doing great, keep it up! I think you are 100% right that it makes it easier
You have helped me a lot! Wish you were closer and we could get together to vent...there are lots of us out there but hard to find, sometimes I think we should wear a "scarlet letter" of sorts, so we could spot each other and be there for support!
How did you get thru your 1 yr anniversay of the D? Mine is coming up in a few days, so not looking forward to it at all, not an anniversary I ever thought I would experience!!
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Me-40 XH-44 T-21 M-18 Div-19 mo. D-18,S-15,D-11 Bomb-7/07 EA,PA Mvd out-9/07-to give me space mvd back-12/07 mvd out-7/08 back with OW since 2/08 OW broke it off-1/10 in and out of tunnel and our life since!!
