RW, sounds like there are real ups and downs. The depression thing is hard but it's great that he's dealing with it.
Glad to read that you're thinking about how to get him pursuing you. If you haven't read it, you might want to read Why Men Love Bitches. It's a stupid title but the book is a how-to on how to set up the man-pursuing-woman dynamic. It's aimed at the dating crowd but I'm sure you can adapt it .
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
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