Gatsby, if you want ideas for snooping ask and believe me, we will help you. Did you get anything out of Puppy's post that I quoted?
Here is another way of thinking about how you act with your H... simple. Don't do anything you would regret, don't burn bridges, don't chase or pursue or beg or plead. So seriously, who cares if you send him a joke email right? It is not pursuing or looking desperate. It may send him mixed signals as to whether you want to be friends or not. But if you are clear with boundaries then who cares, right?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
