And yes, communicating your desires effectively is key. Trying to get (x)W to work a little more calmly on that. Usually with her, she ends up going over the deep end after it's been bottled up for so long and she goes completely insane on me.
Too, too funny!!!
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)