Why don't you do something special for yourself that day. Spa, massage, manicure or hike in the mountains(whatever interests YOU) or do something that you always wanted to do but never did. It will get your mind off the anniversary.
Mach,
I have grown and changed a lot during this process. I think our marriage needed this. We were sort of coasting for years just going through the motions. I can definitly see where our marriage will be a lot better if things work out. If they don't......I'm still better for it!
I didn't think it would take this longgggg though.
