Thanks wontquit it means alot to hear I am not alone in feeling this way.
I totally see the point about not pursuing her, I get it and I'm sure it works. The tough part for me to learn to swallow is that I spent soo much of our relationship not pursuing her that it's difficult to know that continuing to do that will help and not hurt. I guess in the past it wasn't grouped with GAL and 180s. The fact that I am learning about myself and my interactions with her will benefit me n the long run and if any of this works, it would be the aspect of that behavior that is different and more positive.
Thanks for the advice, hope things are gettng better for you.
