My WAH has told me he is going back to Europe to live his life. Finding a job here seems a temporary measure, and as he is having very little luck in that department, then even more temporary than ever.
IF he was promising to stick around and be a father, then this would be so different.
But this is what I have today:
-a WAH in an A with OW who is in his country in Europe -he's telling me he's going to live his life o/seas and I should find a stepfather for the child and the kid will be alright -He would like the child to carry his surname in some way -he had never asked me or agreed to be at the birth (but friend says he wants to) -he was terrified about me sending his stuff to him becasue he was nowwhere to store it and can't afford storage, and was also terrified when I talked lawyers and money -he wants to be friends.
Sounds like the biggest cake eater in the world to me.
* btw, remember my H never had a Dad. He was abandonned one month after birth and met his dad 3 times in his life.
