Just because you might not be able to get through to your partner during face-to-face conversation, doesn't mean you should give up. Simply try a different medium.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement