The issue I see is that the children do not get one-on-one time with each of us. It is either all three kids with me and none with her, or the opposite. I do get one-on-one by having each one go with me/my mom/my dad..... The kids still crave the one-on-one time and want it during the off week parenting time.
I struggle with this too and have yet to find an answer.
(((R2C)))
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning