Didn't realise it was so long since I posted. I guess that means that I'm probably finally on the road to healing smile

Nothing much has changed here. None of the kid have heard from XH except D14 and that's only b/c she contacted him. She has decided to go and stay next week as she should. Not b/c she wants to see her dad but b/c she is missing her baby sister and she doesn't want XH to tell her that she can't see her like he has D20 and S17.

I definately cross a mountain peak at the weekend. I ordered a christening present for the baby from my children. As she was born in Jan her birthstone is garnet. So I have ordered two loose mandarin garnets in a presentation box. That way when she is old enough she can decide how to have them set. My S17 was gobsmacked and told me I was amazing and a very thoughtful person.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15