WAW and the law of attraction

[FormelyknownasF]

Today, I spotted my W on her way to a nights out with her BF. She didn't see me. This comes as no surprise. Her BF is a party animal and will be trying to distract her by partying, meeting other men and drinking (BF is an alcoholic).

Of course, my W is a big girl and it's up to her if she follows her ways or not. No idea if she is still with OM or not but apparently she's still in party land. Oh, but on a different note, her Facebook activity has significantly decreased from 7 days a week to maybe posting 2 or 3 times. Interesting.

But, the point here is not her, the point is that I didn't break. Of course it felt uncomfortable seeing her all dressed up but I am really proud of myself because a month ago, I probably would have approached her and beg or do something stupid. I didn't. I actually was coming back from having a new haircut, feeling good.

For the first time in 2 months I feel that I have nothing to lose. The past is gone and the future will be good with or without her.

I told her, we'll speak when I'm ready and I think am ready to move on.

My problem with prolonging the No contact for yet another month is that it sends the message that 1. I'm not interested in the marriage anymore, 2. Gives ammunition to her to justify things with the family "He told he'd call and he never did".

Things have been a bit quiet in here so I'll ask again: Do you guys have an opinion on how to proceed?

Thanks.