Why wait? Life is too short. A lady who values you will boost your self-worth and improve your quality of life by a ton. Your going to do the same thing for her, thats the whole point.
I could not agree with this more.
I am a natural introvert and enjoy time by myself, however, I do know that life is so much more enhanced if you can share the good times with someone else. Looking forward to the end of the work day to see them. Being able to talk about each others day.
Choosing the right person is the trick. I like to think that I have gained insight from past relationships and that it will serve me well in finding someone who is my soul mate.
It is your choice Lan. I understand why you are sticking it out because a divorce would diminish your time with your princess of a daughter. As long as you dont become too bitter or cynical, it may be best to wait until your daughter is older before considering severing your marriage. Or there is the chance that your W will change and have a desire to help your relationship grow.
I imagine you have coworkers and friends that are in great relationships. And you may know some who are on second relationships that worked out much better than their first. My brother, mother and father are all in great 2nd marriages.
I dont dismiss the statistic which says that second marriages have a higher failure rate, however, I think a good amount of those failures could be attributed to the person that was a walk away, mlc or did not grow during their first marriage.
