C-Bart, I would not let the separation/divorce papers represent what your W is thinking, wanting or saying. That is her lawyer looking out for her, my W gets full of piss and vinegar after talking to her lawyer, I pay it no attention otherthan to come to an agreement and get the thing behind me. I think she still has to file in your state, right?
Great decision on standing by and letting things evolve. You stay Mr. Cool Cucumber.
Hang in there, I am still around just wanted to pop in and say HI.
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