Sorry, I am just a LBS, and I take on the guilt and humiliation of the A, and of being "left." having been made redundant. Having been replaced by a younger model.
It is all in your perception of your sitch. This is what you carry in your aura that people "see".
Let's spin it another way. Try: X went off the deep end and made some really bad decisions and choices that will eventually end in misery for him.
Would your sitch be any different if he chose cocaine over a relationship with you? It would have been really sad, but nothing you could have done to save him. You can hold your head high.
Also, I wrote a profile for Match . com which transferred to Chemistry . com. I didn't pay (Although I hear it will be free for this weekend) to subscribe b/c I am not ready to date yet. BUT the responses, the type of men out there, all confirmed that there will be a life for me w/o WAH. It was a big self-esteem builder. I know you already know that. Just sayin'.
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
