Why wait? Life is too short. A lady who values you will boost your self-worth and improve your quality of life by a ton. Your going to do the same thing for her, thats the whole point.
Too much risk too soon. We didn't recognize the dysfunctional partner to begin with or they changed and we couldn't make things work with them. Failure is ~50% for 1st marriages, ~75% for 2nd marriages. Life's too short for another judgment error esp. with children to focus on.
