Well in MC he was complaining about wasting time not talking about the "big issues" then he doesn't bring any up. SO when I brought one up, bam, big explosion.
THe verbal abuse is back. The accusations, the name calling, making fun of me, calling me a liar, it's all back. I thought I made the right decision to speak my truth since we have avoided talking about the "big issues" in our M for the past year. I thought he wanted to hear them in MC. No I regret. I'm glad I spoke my truth and saw that here is a man who cannot have compassion, only criticism and self pity. Now I can see it clearer and feel better about dark as a place to protect myself.
All the progress we've made interms of him being less abusive on scheduling and practical matters - out the window.
Very confused. Hurt. So back to dark.
And OP - let H heal? He's running for the hills and hiding his head in the sand. How is this healing?
