My dad married his OW and her life has been HELL--same thing--he is possessive, nasty tempered, self-centered. It has done me a lot of good to see "the end of the story".

I mentioned somewhere else on this board that when she complains about him and his latest insult I tell her "You HAD to have him. You broke up a family to get him. He is ALL YOURS".

That SO ticks her off.lol.

(she is British, btw.lol)