It sound about right. Your personality was probably what attracted him to you in the first place. And the fact that he was the type that "goes along" suited you as well. I mean, lets face it, people get together because they do match at a cretain level. The one feeds the other, his insecurities, moods, it's the ying and the yang (dont know how to spell it)thing.
Sad thing is as time goes by, we loose our edge and resentment builds up. What we liked, becomes annoying, for both spouses. I wouldnt be surprised if OW was a lot like you OR the complete opposite exactly because you are the way you are...
In my case, after reading OW's numerous emails, I have to say, she writes like I do. I read in her letters how I treated him when we were in love. Is that a coincidence? I dont think so.
My H as well, considers very few people his friends while I have tons of friends that thankfully were by my side all this time. Funny thing was, he thought my friends would still stay his friends. But since he didnt make an effort to nurture his R with them (I was the one doing that for years), they all gave up on him. One of the things he enjoys now is, being a part of our "group" again...
