I agree. He was asking this because we have both decided on seperating and have for awhile but now that I am changing and he sees that it is like he wants to hold onto me now. I think he is upset because he sees the changes but knows he won't be around to see them develop with us if we stayed together, oh well tough luck!
Katie, in my opinion he's trying to make this YOUR decision. I think he has strayed, is treating your poorly, but if he can position it like "Well, you CAN'T expect me to stay married to Katie and not ever have SEX with her, can you? And she's TOLD me that she's not going to, so . . .."
Just ignore him, as Greek advises. What a pig he's being!
