Maybe he needs some time to himself. I am not saying that he shouldn't do something with you, but if he is having a day like you did a week or so ago where he just needs some alone time that could be all. Maybe you can ask nicely why he doesn't want to do anything. You might be surprised that it has something to do with him and nothing to do with you at all.
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