Kimme, good to read you. Before I nodd off again...
I'm very worried about the cake eating thing to, which is why i have been hardlining H most of the time..
But if the aim is to be the best YOU, whether they come back or not, then maybe cake eating needs to be the collatoral damage in a process that might just bring the desired outcome(s) more effectively.
What I like about Robx's post is that it seems to ask the LBS to look at reality, and listen to what the WAS is saying.
He might not have been posting about an A situation, or one where there is a baby on the way, but I still think it largely applies to all sitchs.
Happy to hear more thoughts, counter-arguments... I'm very interested in your ideas.
