Allen how long did your wife have the A for? Does she really get now how truly distasterous and damaging they are and how parasitic the OP tend to be?
Jail yes like it..no windows yes like, bread and water for ever, liking it more,let lose into a room full of cheated spouses to get a leathering ...love it..
Did she move out?

ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith