Thanks pdt, I will get those soon.

She wants to start talking about splitting up things, selling stuff etc but she isn't planning on filing for a few months (august she said). How do I progress from here? I don't want to create more problems but I need time to start showing her I can change. Do I go along with it? I would move with her at the drop of a hat an I don't care about our material things. I just want her back.