Because I will be 3.5 weeks into NC, I was planning on doing nothing. The only problem is that this was always one of her complaints about me. I never even did the little things like getting her a card for all of these occasions much less anything big. This was definitely one of her resentments over the years. She would always set herself up for these days and then there was no way to win because she was always disappointed.
I was planning on asking my counselor what she thought but I will also ask the board. My friends say that NC means NC of any kind. S24 said no at first but then he said possibly a card thanking her for being the mother of my children but asking the counselor's opinion. Any ideas?
Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs S24 D21 D19 EA disc 6/09 2nd EA Fall 09 I move out 11/12/09 W and I switch 1/14/10 D Filed 3/17/10 W moves in with OM 6/8/10 D Final 6/21/10
