Well full moons do generally mark important events or "culmination points", things that were brewing come to fruition on a full moon. But, not everyone has something brewing. But, see the major gaffe our prime minister made yesterday which may be the final nail in his coffin and the decision on the Greek economy (hey K, you and H arent too affected are you, your jobs are safe etc?)
Well, no kat, but he didnt arrange anything for tommorow either. He has the day off and I took it off because I thought we would do something together. He denied my suggestion, didnt arrange anything as alternative.
I am not in the greatest of moods, my dad has his last chemo tomorrow. K
I had this big gripe about my ex. Every year it was the same thing around the holidays. I had to ask him to do a,b and c. I would get so mad. Why didn't he know the routine by now. He would say, you just need to ask and I would say I shouldn't have to.
So, I get that you shouldn't have to tell him that you want to do something tomorrow. Just the two of you. But you will be stewing in your own juices if you don't. Which do you choose?(and no, you can't throw in..."I wish he would get it" because right now that is not one of the options.)
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Maybe he needs some time to himself. I am not saying that he shouldn't do something with you, but if he is having a day like you did a week or so ago where he just needs some alone time that could be all. Maybe you can ask nicely why he doesn't want to do anything. You might be surprised that it has something to do with him and nothing to do with you at all.
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No, no... He suggested a nice "day" but when I confronted him with "we need time alone", he backed off. I then said, I wont discuss it cause I am not going back to forcing myself on anyone and he replied the issue was open to reconsider together. We never did, he hasnt made any arrangements...
I am ok. I need to relax and the weather is great. Our new puppy is keeping the kids busy and I have lots of things to do.
A friend of mine is verifying why his spouse is distant and wants out. Bought a voice activated recorder to use. I will borrow it too. I need to make sure, he isn ot on contact with her. I have no indication he is, but I feel I need it anyway. Funny, he called ME to get advice from. He said he liked what I pulled off. Have I, really? K
