The fact is that he's f'd up and it is not BBJ's job to try to fix him.
And some people ARE @ssholes. We just like to fool ourselves into thinking they're sick so that we don't have to realize that they DON'T WANT us anymore.
I think the "I really don't like you...I really don't like me...but I really don't like you" made it pretty clear how he feels about me Kimmie! That plus the "You can hate me for doing this to the kids as I hate you for the same"...
Regardless I do hope he finds a way to pull it together so he can be a present, engaged dad eventually.
I hope so too, but it likely will not happen. Forward, forward, being the best Mom you can be. You already ARE an AWESOME mom.
And I have no doubt you will attract a good man too. You know, A GROWN-UP!!