I am trying to treat my H like a MLCer, not sure if you read my thread. As it has the best response for my sitch. i think whether MLC is the case or not, it teaches us to tackle the problem another way, and as MWD says in her books in so many ways, we need to tweak it to work for our own sitch.
Why not ask him for help... sometimes we just need to ask for help! and why not try another approach... one at the very least that would allow your child to have a father... sometimes i think who is H to make such a huge impact in my life and turn me down a different road than what we planned... who gave him that god given right?!?!? and then i think... am i not doing the same if I push H away and out of the baby's life? Am i making a decision that will affect lives and who am I to do so?
