I haven't read the books yet but I plan on picking them up this week. We do not have any kids and I do admit that I have neglected her needs. She does have issues with control and battles with depression but she has always loved me unconditionally and I have always loved her but I was so focused on doing things I thought a good husband must do (work, be tough, sacrifice his wants for hers etc). I realize that I was very selfish and all I want is to show her that I can be an attentive and responsible husband. I think we are (or were) very co-dependent and we have always needed to be strong people on our own. I guess my hope is that over the next few months I can try to work on myself (as she has already started to) and sheay see some change in me that reminds her of what we used to have. Any help would be so appreciated.
