Have you read DivorceBusting or Divorce Remedy yet? Most of the techniques we suggest on here are going to be in the book, and it will help give our advice to you some context. Until you read it, must WILL seem very counter-intuitive (like whether or not doing "180s" will make you seem uninvolved).
Do you have any children?
What have been your wife's marital complaints? Is the "taking her love for granted" and "not being attentive to her needs" longstanding gripes of hers, communicated for the past 3-5 years, or just recent complaints after she's already been in this funk? Do YOU agree you haven't?
