My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

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Allan A,

Agree, but it has to be where she WANTS to commit to the marriage. It can't be leveraged upon her, because eventually she will want to break free.

No, it can't, but Ken can position this as "This is what I need. You, Wife, are free to do whatever you want to do -- you are an adult, after all, and I cannot control you. But make no mistake, whatever you decide will affect what I decide, going forward."

There's a difference between laying out ULTIMATUMS (YOU-oriented) and BOUNDARIES OF PERSONAL INTEGRITY (ME-oriented).

Puppy

^^^This too Ken...SOOO IMPORTANT HOW YOU WORD THESE BOUNDARIES TO YOUR WIFE