My w and I have been married for 5 years and together for about 8. We have had good times but have struggled a bit along the way. I will admit that I have taken her love for me for granted for a long time. After quite some time of me not being responsible and attentive to her needs emotionally she told me this week she wants a divorce and can't ever trust me with her heart again. I've begged and pleaded and now from elreading your posts here I know that isn't the best idea. I told her today that I do not want a divorce and I am committed to bettering myself and hopefully show her that I am sincere and really want to save this relationship. She said she is opening a bank account next week and will start saving to move across the country where her brother lives. She has a six month contract at work so she won't leave until that Is finished. I can't waste any time because she is already talking about splitting up our things.
How do I convince her that I want her back and try and show her I can be a lving, passionate and supportive husband? Does the 180 idea work? Won't she just think I am not being an involved husband?
Please help! I'm desperate and really scared. Thanks
