We have a therapist involved and his recommendation (which usually go against the DBing) is that I should be the roll model and take my kids out shopping for mothers-day gifts.
I am going to go hog wild. Not to gain anything from it. S9 wants to give her flowers, How about a couple dozen delivered to work....Need to figure out what the others want.....
I feel it is very important to determine WHY. If it is pursuing, then DO NOT DO IT.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
