SCH - was you H like that pre-MLC? I must say that in my M we did take on certain "roles" that remained the same for years...like who moves the lawn, takes out garbage, does grocery shopping, holiday planning, sex initiating etc. As our lives changed some new "roles" would establish, but the old ones would generally remain the same.
Everything was running smoothly. It worked for us for many years...only when we started to have MLC problems did I hear "You always" and "You never". Since then I obviously had lots of time to think about this and yes some changes in "roles" would've ben beneficial to liven-up our M.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
