MLC'ers will often try to "fix" someone or something else. They often look for something more broken than themselves to have as "project" . It is a way for them to be moral with out actually being moral. ( If that makes sense).
Hmmmmm................so, is this why my H chose the OW - because her husband cheated and left her behind.....was/is he trying to fix her????? He feels sorry for HER! Sorry to chime in here, I just read that and found it amusing (in my situation)......
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12