We have 50/50 custody. I have kids for 1 week, then MsR2C has the kids for a week. We have a mid week diner visit. The kids are in sports, so I see the kids frequently even during her parenting time.....
I just don't think MsR2C understands how her attempts to control my children builds up resentment in them. I am in my own box and have a harder time determining how my interactions in this affect them......
The issue I see is that the children do not get one-on-one time with each of us. It is either all three kids with me and none with her, or the opposite. I do get one-on-one by having each one go with me/my mom/my dad..... The kids still crave the one-on-one time and want it during the off week parenting time.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
