Had an intimate encounter yesterday eve. W expected that meant I was now feeling great and ready to come back from my "give me some space to cool off" separation.
I said it didn't because I still need the time to deal with the stressors that have made it hard for me to keep a lid on my feelings lately (work, possible move, etc). Offered to avoid sex if it is too powerful for her, but reminded her that it does help me solve my problem.
So, she reacted very strongly. Wanted me out of the b'rm. I reminded her that I would move to the basement, but that she had wanted to go to the kids room.
So...trying to be patient. Trying to be consistent with the plan she and I agreed on last Friday.
