feel like giving up - pt 2

[luvless]

Bridge - hi there - I have my moments I dig myself out of but I'm ok. Thank you for always responding.

SR - I hate that song LOL but thank you for posting..keep sending me songs I love music!

Mind - I really needed to hear that from you. Thank you for being here for me. Hugs back to you too.

I got up at 5am thinking about everything...hey and even you Mind - how you were doing at the fair so I pray and lie there thinking that I need to stop thinking! lol jeez

I have to go to court on Monday for a support hearing. I guess I'm just another statistic.

Luv

[CityGirl]

No, you are NOT just another statistic. You are a woman who is doing what she has to do to take care of her family. Don't be scared about court on Monday. It will all be fine!

Have a beautiful day

[rockedworld]

Will be thinking of you on Monday Luv. And I second what CG said ^^^^ ((hugs))
You are going to do just fine....

[avermont]

Luv--

You will be strong in court. You will protect yourself and your children.

Then, if you need to scream and cry into a bath towel (sometimes the dishtowels just don't cut it) you'll do that, too.

And then you will get up and fight again for you and your children.

Each moment, each moment. Breathe thru each moment.

We are all here for you.

[Onthemountaintop]

Luv,

Is it like a pre-hearing to get a gist for what is going on or is the court going to make a ruling/precedent that could affect either of you (or them!)

Has your L told you what to expect? It sounds like quite a anxiety provoking experience, but understanding more may help if you haven't already got lots of info.

[luvless]

Ruled & CG - thank you girls hugs!

Avermont - I hope to be strong. That is my main fear - breaking down in front of him at court or any hearing. It will be the hardest thing I'll ever do.

OT - my L hasn't told me what to expect I'm sure he will fill me in.

I was sitting in a dentist chair for 2 1/2 hours today and thinking good thoughts about my soon to be X husband. I guess it's gonna take me some time to get over him.

I'll be a pro at sucking it up by the end of all this.

[Bridgestone]

I was sitting in a dentist chair for 2 1/2 hours today

me too!! but only for about an hour

I guess it's gonna take me some time to get over him.

reframe this to.. time to grieve the loss of a a R and the hopes & dreams of what it could have been

I'll be a pro at sucking it up by the end of all this.

You'll be a pro at detaching by the end of all this. Sucking it up.. just stuffs it down.

HOpe you're feeling better than I am after my dental work. Spent the rest of the day popping Tylenol & napping in my chair watching food network & HGTV.

Peace
Bridge


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[luvless]

Hello sweet Bridge,

I know what you mean about sucking it up only stuffs it down. I don't really plan on doing that but it feels that way.

I'm not feeling better lol I have 3 stiches and it hurts like heck so I am anesthesizing with a bloody mary

I Luv you guys for all your support

[LSG]

Hi Luv,

It is okay to have good thoughts about your H. I am sure you always will have them too because M's are not all bad all the time. It is going to take time to get over him. You are just starting the process of a D. I am sure your emotions will be all over the place as they have been leading up to your decision. It is a process, and I think letting the thoughts come good or bad would be healthy to move forward for you.

You know what I am saying I am sure.

Keep doing the best you can.

You have lots of friends hoping you nothing but the best.

[james217]

how you doing LUVly?

I hope this hug helps


*hugs*