Libby, Passenger & OP - thank you my friends for posting

Passanger - I did read somewhere that in marriage spouses take on roles...the more of a role you take on the less the other spouse will get involved in it and will assume that you are happy with that arrangement. That applies to everything from washing dishes, to initiating sex. From experience I believe that it's true...so if you don't like something ...speak-up....I will definitely renegotiate some "roles" if we R smile

Gosh darnit OP...don't call yourself old...you make me feel old. Remember these days the 50s are the new 40s smile


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO