Overnights during the off week has been a big issue. All three of my children have expressed a desire to spend the night at my house during MsR2C's parenting time. I continue to bend and let them go to her house for overnights, but she does not reciprocate. Last night S9 expressed again that he wanted to spend the night at my house.
Me: "it is OK with me. You will need to ask you mother. What do you think she will say?"
S9: "No."
Me: "What does your therapist say?"
S9: "Keep asking her"
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Anyway, how much pressure does everyone think I should encourage S9 to put on his mother? I also can keep the pressure on via EMAIL to MsR2C. I could lay out boundaries, but the therapist "Assures" me she will change.....It has been two years without her bending.
Looking for ideas/ input to get an overnight with my kids.....
The double standard is frustrating......
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
