Will LRT increase WS attachment to OM?

[mdoodles]

i have not read the entire post, just going to give you my opinion based on what happened to me:

if i could do it all again, i would not have pulled back as i did. i pulled back without even knowing what divorce busting was. i said, if he wants to up and move out, let him, im not chasing him. let him miss me, let him wonder. yeah well, that didnt work. it allowed his relationship with psycho ow grow deeper and deeper.

did he come back to me? yes he did. did he leave again? yes he did.

but he did say something to me that sticks in my head, he said, "i didnt see you fighting for me when i first left."

i didnt know at the time of his affair, i wish i had the courage to see it and face it. had i done that, im sure it would have ended although i cant say it would have saved our marriage or that he wouldnt have done it again.

i think you did the right thing exposing it. i think how u go from here depends on how you normally handle things and i cant give the right answer to this.

i was a doormat it seems. as much as i didnt think so, i let him do as he pleased. in the end, no one likes a doormat.