HB - your son sure has his "ducks in the row" ... no wonder that you are so proud of him
I'm happy to hear that the changes you are going through are positive...you deserve the best.
Thanks so much for bringing up the TRUST issue. The way you explained it makes lots of sense. I've been struggling to understand why H has a such a hard time "getting it" that I don't trust him.
Since the day that he announced that he wants to R I did not bring that up at all....he already knows it and as you said he has to process it all and face what he has done...hopefully in time he will see everything more clearly.
HB - You have a rare gift of being able to summarize the issue under discussion and highlight the points within that are at play in this situation...it really helps me to understand where he is coming from and why he behaves the way he does.
Thank you so much for taking the time to help
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
