She will LIKELY try to play coy and charming with you to get you to change your mind.
Your answer is
NO NO NO
Your wife needs to see a GOOD FAMILY THERAPIST.. until she's DOING that, this is your direction and you stick to it, NO EXCUSES...
My FEAR is that as soon as your wife says verbally that she'll stop you will collapse and run right back into her arms again...
To be honest, I have the exact same fear, Ken. This is your nature; that's not a knock -- it's just an observation. Do some good, honest introspection, REALIZE this, and embrace it and make adjustments. THAT'S WHAT LEADERS DO. We ALL have weaknesses; it's what you DO with them -- honestly identify them, and adjust accordingly -- that will define the winners and the losers.
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Do NOT accept her back until she's made some arrangements to re-commit to the marriage
Family THerapy No passworded phones FULL TRANSPARENCY Acknowledgement of the infidelity as destructive
Let's put it this way...
Under current circumstances.. would you marry your wife right now?
Obviously not... so don't RECONCILE until she's offering somthing you would marry in the first place...
