That is really great of both of you to be willing to reach out to her like that. I think a lot of countries are doing similiar things as far as adoption, but I think it is also wrong of the adoptive parents! Hope all of this gets sorted out.
Good too on asking for a hug. Sometimes it is so hard to ask for what we want or need, that we don't say anything. Progress is always a good thing.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory