Originally Posted By: DaddyLongShanks
timehealsall,

How can any one of us be a "sucker" for loving our spouse and trusting them, unless they make us a sucker?


I guess my sucker comment was more that I wasn't overly verbally affectionate or anything like that over the phone.

I think at one point my H did make me a sucker...He definitely took advantage of the fact that I loved him and he knew I'd stick around...it wasn't until I came on here and grew a backbone, that I was able to get some of that confidence back to stand on my own two feet and put my foot down that I wasn't going to allow him to mistaken my kindness for stupidity.


M: 32
H: 34
S:5
D: 3
D: 1
Together 11 years
Married 7
Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off)
ILYBINILWY: 08/09

"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting."
-Laura Munson