"what we have going on between us is EXACTLY that, between US. Talking to the kids like that is disrespectful not only to me but to the kids and to you as well. You're an adult like I am and they are kids, leave them out of this. Do you want them repeating these mistakes when they get married? What needs to be done now is to put the KIDS first, we can deal with our stuff without arguing in front of the kids and without blatantly making the other parent look bad in front of the kids. DON'T DO THIS AGAIN. Thank you!"
