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the response heard by so many left behind men on this site is usually,

"Get yourself a girlfriend"

that would be a kick in his pants to hear that now.

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Something funky going on with your thread, Katie. The main topic page shows that there's a reason post by Steve McQueen, but when I click on your thread, I can't view it. Even tried clicking on McQueen, and "View User's Posts," and it also doesn't let me.

This is now the second time this has happened in the past two days for me, and ONLY with your thread. Strange!

Whatever McQ said, I'm sure it was brilliant. cool

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I really don't know what you are talking about actually:) Yea he is being a pain in my butt, but I ignore him and he seems to want to be around me more and more. He told me today that he was sorry that I didn't do all these changes before now and wishes that we could have met now instead of when we did because I have done a lot of changing in my life and he really likes it. I said yea that is too bad but this is for the best and everything will work itself out. He is shocked for sure.

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I said yea that is too bad but this is for the best and everything will work itself out.



Perfect.

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he just text me and asked "so does this mean we will never sleep together again. Just asking for sure." I haven't replied nor do I know how to reply.

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he just text me and asked "so does this mean we will never sleep together again. Just asking for sure." I haven't replied nor do I know how to reply.

How completely inappropriate of him. I would not dignify that with ANY reply. If another man sent you a ridiculous communication like that, you would be offended I'd think. Well, you should be offended at this, as well.

I'd be thinking, "Excuse me, sir? Are you asking me if I will have sex with you? This is how you approach a lady you care about to be intimate with? Can you say "turn off"?"

You are above responding to that.
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I agree. He was asking this because we have both decided on seperating and have for awhile but now that I am changing and he sees that it is like he wants to hold onto me now. I think he is upset because he sees the changes but knows he won't be around to see them develop with us if we stayed together, oh well tough luck!

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Originally Posted By: Katie
I agree. He was asking this because we have both decided on seperating and have for awhile but now that I am changing and he sees that it is like he wants to hold onto me now. I think he is upset because he sees the changes but knows he won't be around to see them develop with us if we stayed together, oh well tough luck!


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Katie you are doing just awesome here.


Thats all I have to say.

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Originally Posted By: Katie
he just text me and asked "so does this mean we will never sleep together again. Just asking for sure." I haven't replied nor do I know how to reply.

How completely inappropriate of him. I would not dignify that with ANY reply. If another man sent you a ridiculous communication like that, you would be offended I'd think. Well, you should be offended at this, as well.

I'd be thinking, "Excuse me, sir? Are you asking me if I will have sex with you? This is how you approach a lady you care about to be intimate with? Can you say "turn off"?"

You are above responding to that.
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Hey Greek, this is a man talking to his wife? One would think that you could be more direct and beat around the bush less with your own "wife" or "husband" for that matter.

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