We had a good talk yesterday afternoon. I wasn't weepy or anything. I was friendly without being a sucker and was straight to the point. He asked me questions and I answered honestly.
There had been alot of misunderstandings on his part.
I told him that he needs to make an effort. I will not be the only one making moves. He said he understands.
We ended our conversation and he did a few little things that caught my attention. When he told me he'd call me, he did. At one point he ran out to the store and got a ride with his neighbor and he sent me an email apologizing that he ran out without calling first. He also had this same acquaintence over having burgers and he called me while the acquaintence was there and we chatted for a bit and then the acquaintence left and we stayed on for a while longer and then I ended the conversation because I had to get to bed.
I checked intel and he's been looking at flights to come home tomorrow (YAY!) and he was on FB putting pictures of the kids up as well and going through old pictures he has on his computer.
I have spoken to him on and off today and he is trying to get home tomorrow, if possible. He says he wants out of there.
We shall see what happens friends.
M: 32 H: 34 S:5 D: 3 D: 1 Together 11 years Married 7 Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off) ILYBINILWY: 08/09
"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting." -Laura Munson